Everyone Has an Opinion about Your Divorce

    People can be incredibly judgmental and vocal when it comes to other peoples’ divorces. Parents and in-laws, siblings and best friends, they’ll all have an opinion on what they perceive you to have done to your ex, or on what’s been done to you, by your ex. I think sometimes it’s a harder battle fighting the souls who are goading your situation on, like bloodthirsty spectators cheering from the comfort and safety of their seat at a gladiator ring. If you have a few rallying Read more [...]

Yam Pancakes

  I took one leftover yam from dinner (you can leave these in the flesh, and put them in the fridge.  They are great as leftovers or to use in recipes)   Yam Pancakes 1/2 cup of the cooked yam scooped out from it's skin. 1 cup low fat milk 1/2 tsp. cinnamon 1/2 tsp. vanilla 1 egg I blended all ingredients in a blender (Magic Bullet Actually), until it was smooth and runny. Then I put in a bowl: 3/4 cup whole wheat flour 2 tsp. baking powder 1/4 tsp. salt Then added the Read more [...]

“Hold Me Up”

        The grief is Heavy, but in the heaviness Every heart can be uplifted   Hope’s motif is then Embedded in A byproduct Love re-gifted I need you to hold me up Never let me down when I’m deep into it Give me the strength to go through it   Properly, I have to put this grief behind me Remove it from me finally Over time & under the watchful eye Clouded by Emotions that erupt Stand by me dear Lord, hold me up Stand by me dear Lord, hold Read more [...]

Remove The They From Your Christmas Card List

  If a new love interest comes into your life, but the timing is bad, consider carefully who exactly the bad timing matters to. If it’s for The They (all those incessantly noisy people connected to your ex), ask yourself where they fare on the scale of your right to happiness.  It’s more likely that if you took up with somebody on the day you left, 3 weeks after, 3 months, even 3 years, you’d be projected into a bubble of shame. We all have a right to be happy, on our own if we Read more [...]

Tough Times for Travel and More

      Podcast: Play in new window | Download     On todays Single Again! Now What? with Joanie Winberg, Lesley Hatfield & Steve Peck, is really much more fun than a barrel of monkeys as they discuss Tough Times for Travel and many more topics. Our trio have tons to laugh and talk about as they discuss such things as: How horrible flying can be these days while highlighting Steve’s trip to Atlanta It really is a tough time for cruise lines. How about traveling Read more [...]

Ways to Feel Dateable While Happily Divorced

Being happily divorced doesn't necessarily mean that you feel up to the challenge of dating again. Being used to a certain way of life for so long may have left you feeling comfortable and having certain expectations out of a relationship. Now that that comfort zone is gone, you may feel insecure about getting back into dating. This is natural in divorce recovery, and you're not the first person to go through it. This is the chance to rediscover who you are outside of your marriage; your identity Read more [...]

A Short Meditation, Join us Now to Relax.

  Focus, on how to make relaxation a priority in your life.  It's time to relax, let go, and experience the beauty , bliss and serenity of meditation. It will be soooo worth it! Hi I am David Essel, M.S. the Author 7 books and counting, National Radio and Television Host, Master Life and Business Coach, Adjunct Professor, All Faiths Minister, Addiction Recovery Coach and International Speaker. My mission is to inspire others to reach their own exceptional potential in their business and Read more [...]

After Divorce… Survive and Thrive Boot Camp for Women and Men

  After Divorce Survive and Thrive BOOT CAMP Groups for Women or Men Your new life starts here! How to Deal with the Holidays and Bring in the New Year with a Smile Are any of the following concerns keeping you awake at night? - Will I always feel this lonely? - I can't seem to get out of my own way. I feel stuck. I need help setting goals for my new life. - How do I deal with stress and the feeling of being overwhelmed as a single parent on a daily basis? - Dating again? How do I Read more [...]

No Magic Recipe for a Fast Fix

    Stress-busting can become an occupational hazard while you tread water through and after a turbulent divorce.   It can easily blow up and manifest into physical symptoms that leave you feeling utterly depleted, void of all confidence and unable to focus on the here and now.   I wish I could give you a magic recipe for a fast fix, unfortunately I cannot, but I can tell you that things don’t have to play out as a foregone conclusion.   You might think that you Read more [...]

What is LUST? Evil? Or Healthy, Natural Thing?

    Have you ever asked yourself  "What is LUST? Evil? Or healthy, natural?"  Is there a positive reason for this?   Hi I am David Essel, M.S. the Author 7 books and counting, National Radio and Television Host, Master Life and Business Coach, Adjunct Professor, All Faiths Minister, Addiction Recovery Coach and International Speaker. My mission is to inspire others to reach their own exceptional potential in their business and personal life. The 100% purely positive radio Read more [...]