Ex’s Family can be the Hardest Sets of ‘The They’

Your ex’s immediate family can be one of the hardest sets of ‘The They’ to have to endure. You may find yourself physically discarded like a walking piece of snotty tissue, in which case, you have nothing much to work with unless you chose to keep the threads of communication open. However, doing so might result in them having to confront the very worst of their child/sibling etc, as they struggle to digest the details of your marital status and what brought you to this point. The devil Read more [...]

Is it Ok to Get Really Angry?

    Have you ever wondered if  it is ok to get really angry?     Hi, I am David Essel, M.S. the Author 7 books and counting, National Radio and Television Host, Master Life and Business Coach, Adjunct Professor, All Faiths Minister, Addiction Recovery Coach and International Speaker. My mission is to inspire others to reach their own exceptional potential in their business and personal life. My book, The Power of Focus is my FREE gift for you at TalkDavid.com The Read more [...]

How Are You Doing?

  Remember the value of somebody genuinely asking you how you’re doing. Someone who knows the edge of your story, but who is more interested in how you’re feeling, than paying attention to idle gossip. If you find out a friend is walking a similar path to you and if you’re feeling strong enough, ask how they are. It may transpire that you are further down the road than they are and there’s nothing like a splash of hard learned good advice to put in your armory.   Please share Read more [...]

Before we Forgive Anyone You Must Feel

    It is important to understand forgiveness.  There are some things that you should do before we forgive anyone.  Please watch this video and learn what you must feel first before you can forgive and have freedom.       Hi, I am David Essel, M.S. the Author 7 books and counting, National Radio and Television Host, Master Life and Business Coach, Adjunct Professor, All Faiths Minister, Addiction Recovery Coach and International Speaker. My mission is to inspire Read more [...]

Resist the Urge to Have Body Art or Piercings

Resist the urge to have any body art that glorifies the end of your relationship. Piercings are visible enough and even if you take the jewellery out and let the skin grow back, you’ll always see the scar and tattoos are nothing short of permanent. Having a piece of artwork done to signify the death of your marriage might initially offer you victorious relief but in time you may regret seeing anything on your precious epidermis that reminds you of your fated connection. Irritating ex’s do Read more [...]

Strings and Green Beans Casserole

    1 cup chopped onions 1 tsp. olive oil Saute onion in olive oil until tender. Then add to skillet: 4 cups green beans (fresh or thawed from frozen) 1 can of diced tomatoes (drained) 2 TBL fat free mayo 1/4 tsp garlic powder 1/4 tsp salt   Cook all in skillet until warmed through.  Pour all vegetables in a casserole dish and sprinkle bread crumbs and Parmesan cheese on top.  Bake at 375° for 30 minutes.   Recipe originally posted on Super Healthy Kids. The Read more [...]

“Machete Dating” How to Date with Power! Confidence!

    How to Date with Power! Confidence! "Machete Dating"   Watch, as we discuss the no- nonsense approach to the world of dating!     Hi, I am David Essel, M.S. the Author 7 books and counting, National Radio and Television Host, Master Life and Business Coach, Adjunct Professor, All Faiths Minister, Addiction Recovery Coach and International Speaker. My mission is to inspire others to reach their own exceptional potential in their business and personal life. My book, Read more [...]

Make a List of at Least Three Fun Things

When you feel the weight of your situation bearing down on your shoulders, try to make a list of at least three things you usually have fun doing and tape it to the fridge or a kitchen cupboard that you see regularly. The list can contain anything from knitting, ice skating, bathing and grooming the dog, star gazing, giving yourself a pedicure, meditating or visiting an art gallery; the only pre-requisite to be on the list is that the activity should give you pleasure.  Decorate it with silly Read more [...]

The Pro’s and Con’s of Being Honest?

    The Pro's and Con's of Being Honest?  Is there a downside...we face...when we are honest?       Hi, I am David Essel, M.S. the Author 7 books and counting, National Radio and Television Host, Master Life and Business Coach, Adjunct Professor, All Faiths Minister, Addiction Recovery Coach and International Speaker. My mission is to inspire others to reach their own exceptional potential in their business and personal life. My book, The Power of Focus is my Read more [...]

Books and Movies can Have a Strong Impact

It’s funny how books and movies can have such a strong impact on you when you are feeling emotionally vulnerable. I remember being on my lead up to leaving and watching ‘Eat, Pray, Love’ based on the memoir written by Elizabeth Gilbert. I’d spend a day drifting in and out of my own thoughts and ended up at the cinema desperately seeking something to lift my spirits. I’d never heard of the book or the author come to that, but it was either this or a mad shoot ‘em up flick; I went for Read more [...]