Divorce Coping Tip of the Day – Numbness

  There is gonna be  times where you are gonna feel numbness within yourself ,  I know I do at times and lately I have been feeling that way a lot.. I struggle lately with the daily routine and all the changes I have had to go through this last year.. But there is one thing I  know is that I have learned so much about myself and I have also learned a lot about other's. I maybe dealing with some individual  issue's right now, like working at a job that I don't enjoy ,because of the negative Read more [...]

Divorce Coping Tip of the Day – Control

      Don't ever let anyone control you again, you are an adult and able to make up your own mind. If someone comes into your life or has been for several years they do not have the right to tell you how to do things or how to live your life period. If someone is verbally abusive, you don't need that in your life; words are very hurtful and something you don't forget.  They can become something that haunts you all the time in the back of your mind. When you start noticing Read more [...]

Divorce Coping Tip of the Day – The Holidays II

  The holidays are never easy no matter what when your alone, you wonder if your ever gonna have those special moments again with a special someone. But what is even harder is when you have a special someone in your life and you can't spend the holidays with them for many different reasons. So you try and get yourself through this time trying to put on a happy face,when actually your dying inside. Then you have those Holiday parties to go to for work and it says bring a guest and you Read more [...]

Divorce Coping Tip of the Day – The Holidays

The holidays are here and it can be  so very stressful in so many ways and its learning to cope through it all. I have been divorced now for 12 years and I think the holidays are the worst for me, but I guess its because none of us really like being alone on those days. We want to share it with someone special and feel the laughter and the giving with them.  It's learning to do things alone now when you so wanna have that special someone to share it with. Then there is a big relief and that Read more [...]

Divorce Coping Tip of the Day – Letting Go

  Letting go is one of the biggest challenges that you have to face in life. It’s risky and aggravating sometimes because really, most people don’t like the change right? But change is good. It could be about letting go of  that favorite toy, clothing, game, that person you love (for the best or the worse), your old house, your routines/habits, a loved one’s death, etc.   Everyone goes through... the feeling of detachment; some people seem do not understand others struggle Read more [...]

Goodmorning

Goodmorning..       When I awake, and start my day, With special thoughts of you, I wonder if you think of me and, Start your day like I do?  ... If in your busy schedule, That you might make some room, For one who waits and wishes for, A message from you soon.  For kind words and a smile that's sent, From you to me this day, Would fill my heart with warmth now,     With all the things you say.  Here is a very special wish, That's meant for only you, That's Read more [...]

Decide to File for Divorce and Move On with Your Life Can Be Exciting

  I remember for myself when I decided to file for divorce and move on with my life, it was a long thought out process and I had to get myself together and prepare for my journey to being myself again. It was something I wanted to do for myself for the last 3-4 years of my marriage. The day my divorce was final I felt like 100 tons had been lifted off my shoulders,and I felt like I could breathe again . I started  a new job the week my divorce was final, and my daughter graduated from high Read more [...]

Divorce Coping Tip of the Day – Never say Never

  Never say your never gonna be able to get out there and enjoy life again,because you are and will be happy again with yourself.. You take things one day at a time and you do what matters for yourself! It is a scary thing to end a relationship after a long period of time,but it can also be an exciting time for you. You have the right to do things for yourself and make decisions on your own , and  do the things that you have always wanted to do that you could not do before. It's time for Read more [...]