Divorce Coping Tip of the Day – Promise is a Big Word

Promise is a big word, if you break it, it will also break a lot of other words as well. One example is trust. When we break our promises we must be careful because along with broken promises comes a lot of other things. We have to be careful what we promise to people in our lives because not only may we be able to break their trust, but we may also break their hearts, their minds, their will, and their spirit when we aren't able to follow through with what we initially promised. Delivering in Read more [...]

Communication

        Many times when couples are having problems in a relationship, unfortunately communication is the first thing to stop. It is often easier to just be quiet than to get mad. When rebuilding or creating a new type of relationships, just as communication was the first to stop, it now needs to be the first to start. This will require that both individuals let down their guard and pretty much throw caution to the wind.     Healing in the relationship cannot Read more [...]

Divorce Coping Tip of the Day – Believe in Yourself!!

    Always be and believe in yourself. Never try to hide who you are, the only shame is to have shame. Always stand up for what you believe in. Always question what other people tell you. Never regret the past. It’s a waste of time. There’s a reason for everything. Every mistake. Every moment of weakness. Every terrible thing that has happened to you. Grow from it. The only way you can ever get the respect from others is when we show them you respect yourself. And most importantly, Read more [...]

Life is an Interesting Journey

    Life is an interesting journey; you never know where it'll take you. Through all the peaks & valleys, twists & turns, you can get the surprise of your life. Sometimes on the way to where you're going you might think, damn this is the worst time of my life...But you know what, at the end of the road through all the adversity & pain, if you get to where you wanted to be. That's when you remember that whatever doesn’t kill you only makes you stronger; all the adversity Read more [...]

Coping Tip of The Day – Honest With Yourself

      We all make mistakes, hurt and disappoint people, get hurt and get disappointed. Don’t get caught up in the past, learn from it. Allow yourself to grow, to smile and to be happy. Isn’t it lovely to look in the mirror and see an honest person, your best friend, the one you can always count on? Make sure you are. Love yourself. With a big fire in your heart, you can set other hearts on fire. Be gentle, kind, respectful, sincere. If you carry that out, you might inspire Read more [...]

Promises

    Don't bother me with promises. Vows are cheaply manufactured, come with no guarantees. Don't bother to say you love me. The word is indefinable. Joy to some, heartbreak to others, depending on the circumstance. There is evidence that the emotion can make a person live longer, evidence that it can kill you early. I think it's akin to a deadly disease. Or at least some exotic fever. Catch it, and you better, quick; swallow some medication to use as a weapon against the fire ravaging Read more [...]

Perfect!!!!!

    Perfect? How do you define a word without concrete meaning? Everyone has their own idea of being perfect. No two random people will agree on each other's idea of perfect. Faultless, Finished, or Incomparable. People can never be these, and anyway...when did creating a flawless facade become a more vital goal than learning to love the person who lives inside your skin? The outside belongs to others. Only you should decide for you, what is perfect.   Would you like to support Read more [...]

Fear

    Fear begins and ends with the desire to be secure; inward and outward security, with the desire to be certain, to have permanency. The continuity of permanence is sought in every direction, in virtue, in relationship, in action, in experience, in knowledge, in outward and inward things. To find security and be secure is the everlasting cry. It is this insistent demand that breeds fear.   Would you like to support DASNM?  If so, it is easy, just use this link  Amazon Purchases Read more [...]

Moving Forward

  Moving forward is a process in life that many people loathe because moving forward is a time that requires one to make changes.  Being able to move forward in life is a true test of a person's maturity level, and a true test of the confidence that they have within themselves.  In order to succeed in the accomplishment of the dreams and goals that we have in our hearts we must be able to not only look forward, but also have the capacity to move forward as well.  We must resist looking Read more [...]

Divorce Coping Tip of the Day – Promise Yourself

      Promise Yourself To be so strong that nothing can disturb your peace of mind. To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person you meet. To make all your friends feel that there is something in them To look at the sunny side of everything ... and make your optimism come true. To think only the best, to work only for the best, and to expect only the best. To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as you are about your own. To forget the mistakes Read more [...]