INSTEAD OF WORRYING ABOUT FINDING SOMEONE NEW, FOCUS ON YOU!

When people find themselves single again, it can be a scary experience.  Often in the grips of change and loneliness, we find ourselves wondering about the “whens”, “wheres” and “hows” of finding someone new.  However, jumping right back into another relationship is not always beneficial to everyone involved, most importantly-yourself. Before getting involved in another relationship right away, we need to do what is best for us, which is to heal completely.  It is necessary to be Read more [...]

THE BRANCH IN THE ROAD

    "When you come to the place where the branch in the road is quite apparent, you cannot go ahead.  You must go either one way or the other.  For now if you go straight ahead, the way you went before you reached the branch, you will go nowhere.  The whole purpose of coming this far was to decide which branch you will take now.  The way you came no longer matters.  It can no longer serve.  No one who reaches this far can make the wrong decision, although he can delay.  And Read more [...]

7 Axions / Universal Truths – Zuda Yoga Teacher Training

  7 Axions / Universal Truths - Zuda Yoga Teacher Training 1.  You are exactly where you are supposed to be 2.  Fear and pain are life's greatest teachers 3.  Laughter and play are the keys to the fountain of youth 4.  Exercise and rest are the keys to vibrant health 5.  Touch and intimacy are basic human needs 6.  Everything is impermanent 7.  Everything is connected         Amazon.com Widgets     Would you like to support DASNM?  If so, Read more [...]

FEED YOUR SOUL

    The end of any relationship (especially going through a divorce), can be very traumatic and devastating.  Your world is turned upside down and everything that you’ve once known is no more.  This can leave a person feeling at a loss and downright wretched. I know all this from personal experience.  Going through a divorce was one of the most difficult things I had to go through.  For months, I was depressed, sat home, did nothing and cried every day. What to do in these trying Read more [...]

HE SAID WHAT???

    “You look like one of Santa’s elves” one man said to me, in reference to the pink fake Uggs I was wearing.  What was I supposed to say to that, “thank you”?  This was at an event, where I do volunteer work and he was also a volunteer I had never seen before.  I think he was using volunteering as an opportunity to find a date because he was asking the other people about me and why I was single.  I then saw him trying to “pick up” the other women volunteers.  I Read more [...]

YOU ARE EXACTLY WHERE YOU ARE SUPPOSED TO BE

    Life has its own agenda.  I’ve found this out the hard way.  According to my life plans, I was supposed to  go to college, graduate, get a great job and have a successful career, get married to the man of my dreams, have two kids (a boy and a girl) and live happily ever after.  Yeah, it didn’t quite work out that way.  When my life didn’t turn out as planned, I took a very hard fall. But I am  exactly where I am supposed to be! Besides graduating from college and getting Read more [...]

GET OUT THERE AND ENJOY LIFE…EVEN IF IT’S BY YOURSELF

    When I was married, my life pretty much revolved around my husband, his schedule our home and my job.  So, when I got divorced, I found myself alone and didn’t have anybody to do things with.  I didn’t have any children.  I had friends, but they were all married and busy with their families and their own lives.  I hated the weekends, as I found myself sitting home with nothing to do and feeling lonely.  It was really hard because I love experiencing and seeing things and Read more [...]