A Success Story: – Infidelity – I Didn’t Let His Affair Destroy Me

“There are all kinds of ways for a relationship to be tested, even broken, some, irrevocably; it’s the endings we’re unprepared for.” ― Katherine Owen, Not To Us About two years ago, I thought my life was falling apart. After the death of one of my parents, I found out my husband was having an affair and he walked out on my son and me at the weakest moment in my life. I sat in my house with my son who was a toddler, and didn’t understand what I did to deserve to lose my father and the Read more [...]

*** My Own Diva’s Survival Tips ***

    The Divorced Diva'sTen survival tips for after your divorce: Divorced Diva survival tip #1: Change your thoughts and you change your world...don't be the victim anymore...BE the SURVIVOR starting now!   Divorced Diva survival tip #2: Throw yourself into a hobby...maybe something you have ALWAYS wanted to do but didn't have the time before. Right now it is important to STAY BUSY and keep going! I bought myself a nice camera and took up photography. What hobby will you take Read more [...]

I kicked DIVORCE in the butt…

I decided divorce was no longer going to take a hold of me. The year after my divorce I kicked its butt with these 10 things: 1. Working out: started running and got in the best shape of my life. 2. Fun things just for me like: salsa dance lessons, kickball league, comedy night, roller skating and more, 3. Fun girl weekends; trips to see my friends that lived in different states. 4. Started a blog, and shared it with people who I felt close enough to share the intimate details with. 5. Made Read more [...]

10 Ways to Help Move Forward After Divorce

    Here are my Diva top 10 ways to help move forward after divorce! 1. Forgive yourself first. For not being whatever enough to make it work, for not cutting the crap from your ex sooner than you did, for anything and everything you did or didn't do that you're currently guilt-tripping yourself over. It's not worth it. Only when you forgive can you truly LET GO and begin to MOVE ON. 2. Start a new hobby. For me, group fitness classes became a new way of life. Added bonus: I lost Read more [...]