Let US Learn from Peter

      Let's take a moment and think about Peter, when he got out of the boat because Jesus asked him. He put his faith in Jesus when he became afraid he started to sink. At that point, he called out for Jesus to help him even though he was afraid and sinking. The other disciples sat safely in the boat they did not take the risk to try. They leaned on the boat, and Peter leaned on Jesus. Faith let's go of the ordinary for a little while so God can do something better. Why are you Read more [...]

So Much Free Time! What Now?

After your divorce, you are probably finding yourself with a lot more free time on your hands, and nothing to fill it with. Hours spent with your spouse doing things, going places, and socializing with common friends are now yours to do what you want with them. Periods where you used to take care of conjugal affairs and obligations is now all yours. The issue is that you used to spend part of your day just being with your ex, and another part of the day doing things together, going out, and so Read more [...]

Internet Dating???…….Here’s How To Do It.

  ACCORDING to a recent survey, internet dating is the number 1 way that people look to find their love partners. Watch as we share stories of clients who have used this medium. Life Coach offices in Miami and Fort Myers, teleconference from anywhere.       Hi I am David Essel, M.S. the Author 7 books and counting, National Radio and Television Host, Master Life and Business Coach, Adjunct Professor, All Faiths Minister, Addiction Recovery Coach and International Speaker. Read more [...]

To Marry or Not to Marry- the Dilemma of Love and Marriage After Divorce

Many people who undergo a divorce take a significant amount of time to come out of the trauma. The question of dating and love does not feature on their list of priorities at all. However, with work time is a great healer and you can overcome the shock and trauma of the divorce. Then be able to embrace the happiness that love and romance can bring into a life. However, if infidelity was the cause of the divorce, it may take a little longer for a person to be able to trust a person and fall in Read more [...]

IT’s ALL GOOD? A Phrase That Destroys Motivation.

      This is one of the most over used phrases in society today. Watch as we describe the ways this one simple phrase, holds us back in life.       Hi I am David Essel, M.S. the Author 7 books and counting, National Radio and Television Host, Master Life and Business Coach, Adjunct Professor, All Faiths Minister, Addiction Recovery Coach and International Speaker. My mission is to inspire others to reach their own exceptional potential in their business and Read more [...]

A Little Motivation for 2014

    My, my it’s 2014. A New Year. Another opportunity to start again. It’s funny, because I distinctly remember a discussion with my ex after a horribly bad patch in our relationship. It centered on trying to start again, because we both knew it was impossible to start over. I think about that discussion almost every New Year because now that I am divorced, I think of this time of year as MY personal opportunity to start again. I have a fresh canvas and new colors in my life’s Read more [...]

Time to Make New Holiday Traditions After Divorce

    The first holiday season after divorce can be quite hard because it may mean it’s the first holiday you’ve spent alone. Many families have holiday traditions, and if you’re family is newly separated or divorced it can be difficult to figure out the new holiday traditions after divorce. Whether the tradition was ordering Chinese takeout on Thanksgiving, or opening presents in new Christmas pajamas-you’re lost as to what to do now that you’re alone for the holidays.   There Read more [...]

Women & Self Esteem: 3 Easy Steps

    While there are thousands of steps to increase our self esteem, self love, here are 3 that women can put into action immediately.   Hi I am David Essel, M.S. the Author 7 books and counting, National Radio and Television Host, Master Life and Business Coach, Adjunct Professor, All Faiths Minister, Addiction Recovery Coach and International Speaker. My mission is to inspire others to reach their own exceptional potential in their business and personal life. The 100% purely Read more [...]

Dating Hardships? Try Online Dating

    Dating is not without its challenges. As someone who had a disfiguring accident at times I have had  difficulties in social situations.  Even though most people don’t see the scars now I do and meeting others has always been one of the biggest issues I have had when trying to date. A friend introduced me to online dating and it changed my personal life as I knew it. Online dating can be an excellent method to meeting other singles, if everyone is upfront about their expectations Read more [...]

Divorce is an Opportunity to Discover Who You Want to Be

        In the years after my divorce, while hanging on (barely) to my sanity, to my precious and drastically reduced income and to my children and job, I recognized a fork in the road about myself. I could copy myself to recreate the previous 24 years, or I could explore new challenges.  Divorce is an Opportunity to Discover Who You Want to Be! I was amazed how closed my church world was to these new ideas and how open my new apartment neighbors were. I had eye-opening Read more [...]