NARCISSISTIC TRAITS

  NARCISSISTIC TRAITS   Turns every conversation to him/her expects you to meet his/her emotional needs Ignores the impact of his/her negative comments on you Constantly criticizes or berates you and knows what is best for you Focus on blaming rather than taking responsibility for their own behavior Expect you to jump at their every need Is overly involved with their own hobbies, interests or addictions ignoring your needs Has high need for attention: Brags, sulks, complains, Read more [...]

Spy Gadgets of Today

Spy Gadgets of Today People are always asking me how cool it is to be a Private Investigator. They ask what is the most exciting investigation I have been on? They ask if I have caught people cheating? Then eventually it comes up to what kind of cool spy gadgets do you have? This is usually where I giggle a little and tell them I think the coolest gadgets on the market record video when no one is aware. Now as far as how cool it is to be a Private Investigator I love it because I get to help people Read more [...]

Are You a Soft Target for Manipulators? Take the test.

      Are You a Soft Target for Manipulators? Take the test to see and if you are, learn what you need to work on so you will no longer be a soft target for a manipulator. Read each statement below. If the statement is true or mostly True for you, circle T; if it is false or mostly false, circle F. Be Sure to circle either T or F for every item. No fence-sitting. Who’s Pulling Your Strings? T F   1. I should always try to please other people and make them happy. T F Read more [...]

Halloween Safety Tips

    Halloween is here and it is time for things that go bump in the night to come to life in tricks and treats and cardboard and plastic costumes. A lot of people are not aware that Halloween as we know it in America was brought about to have a community celebration to lift spirits after the great depression. Candy came about when pranks over ran the Halloween celebration and neighborhoods began handing out candy in order to keep from being vandalized. (www.history.com) Halloween to Read more [...]

Co-Parenting a Child with Someone who Suffers From a Personality Disorder; Here are a few Things to Consider

      Co-parenting - Co-parenting (or Co-parenting) means sharing physical or legal custody of a child when you are separated or divorced. Here are a few things to consider when you are Co-parenting a child with someone who suffers from a personality disorder. Personal Safety - Personal Safety is a list of actions that are designed to keep situations from escalating and to make sure that Physical, Emotional and Verbal abuse is avoided or stopped at the first moment it begins Read more [...]

The 9 Characteristics of Narcissism

      1. An exaggerated or grandiose sense of self importance that isn’t supported by reality. He/she believes that his/her priorities, interests, opinions and beliefs are better than or more important than others and as a result, they feel entitled to dominate and control those around them. He/she can even seem quite modest in public about these views, but usually at home these are evident. 2. A preoccupation with fantasies of extraordinary success, power, beauty or love. He/she Read more [...]

Abbreviations used by MEV

    Here is a list of the abbreviations used by MEV. "Narcissist" can be cumbersome to type over and over again, so feel free to use these abreviations: N/NPDer - Narcissist P - Psychopath NP - Narcissistic Psychopath NPD - Narcissistic Personality Disorder PA - Passive Aggressive NS - Narcissistic Supply APD - Antisocial Personality Disorder BPD - Borderline Personality Disorder Bi-P - Bi-Polar NC - No Contact NW - Narcissist Wife NH - Narcissist Husband XN - Ex Narcissist XNW/WNH Read more [...]