My Husband Would Feel Fury and Frustration

  A separated woman recalls teasing and insulting her husband in front of others. — Reading Gint Aras’ The Butt of the Marriage Joke, about wives who make fun of husbands online, got me thinking and remembering. Posting tasteless memes seemed like child’s play compared to what I used to unleash on my partner. I am a separated 32 year old woman. I used to bash my partner verbally, in his presence and with an audience. I was the purveyor of silly jokes about men and husbands, thinly Read more [...]

Want to Share? – Writers Needed – Share Your Story!

    Here’s your chance to share your stories and photos on You need not be a professional writer. The most important thing to know is this: to be published in, your piece must be told as a story — as a narrative (as if you are telling your friend) — it must be your original work and no ex-bashing. is maintained by a small team so we ask your help when submitting stories. Please let us know what category you feel you article would fit best in. Here Read more [...]

Feelings While Healing After A Divorce

      These are my feelings while I am healing is this normal and do you feel the same? At times I feel old.....  At times I want to toss in the towel...  At time I want to just give up....  Most of the time I have no clue why my ex does and says the things he does....  But just when I start to say "what the ....”  Then God sends a Godwinks and I know I am on the right path despite what people say or do to me! One step at a time to my new and improved me! Member Response Read more [...]

Sassy Zen Card Readings Now Available

        Order between now and December 9th and receive and extra 5 minutes for free!!! (That's a 20 minute reading for only 20 dollars!) Hello my name is Lillian. I’m the artist and creator of the Sassy Zen cards. I am also a Certified Holistic Health Coach, a Certified Vision Board Coach, with over 30 years of consulting experience. A Sassy Zen 15 min. 1 question reading reviews your past, identifies exactly where you are now, and offers guidance on how to best move Read more [...]

Rejection Seems to be Rearing its Ugly Head in Me.

      “I am dating after my divorce almost a year ago. I only dated briefly with one other person, and have found what I believe to be my one and only in this man. Any advice on the rejection that seems to be rearing its ugly head in me? I sometimes feel like he is pulling away but then realize he isn't. These feelings started after he changed his mind about us moving in together. He says he just got cold feet. Now since then I am feeling some crappy feelings I don’t really Read more [...]

Ask God For a Sign and You will Probably Get a BIG One!

    Overnight, a single mother of 6, 5 daughters and 1 son. They needed me so much now, they needed me to be their strength, and needless to say they were mine. My children need to see by my example that we would be okay. They needed & still need to know they will always have me and I will NEVER leave their side or betray them, ever… We would get thru this together and we did, and in many ways we still are. In the months that followed I had some difficult choices to make, our Read more [...]

Reach Out – “Does It Get Any Better With Time?”

    Reach Out “Does It Get Any Better With Time?”   Member Requesting Input "I only started divorce proceedings against my abusive husband yesterday, I had to go through everything, and does the pain of going through the process get easier?"   Member Response 1 Way to go 🙂 It takes courage and strength to make a big life change. It is ok to get some professional help as you go thru. I am in counseling now to help me with the stress, depression, and all of the other Read more [...]

Are the Games My Ex Plays Abuse?

Members Reach Out and Share I am split from my ex, we got married because of our kids. She was very abusive and was abused by her father, she don't like the therapist but she likes to play games, I feel safer at the therapists but she refuses to go. Unless I talk to her first and answer her questions, I do not like that game. She won’t let me see my kid, for the last 2 yrs. but she wants to play games with me. I said “No More No More Games, Facebook is not the place!” I ask her to meet Read more [...]

Stories of Survivors and The Good Guy, the Bad Guy, and the Ugly Truth

  DASNM and I wanted to let you know that both of the books I put out are free until 7/28/2014.  Feel free to get your copies of "The Good Guy, the Bad Guy, and the Ugly Truth: A Relationship Self-Help Book for Both Men and Women Hoping to Find Healthy Relationships" and Stories of Survivors."  While your at it please share this with a friend so they can also get their copies. I truly hope you enjoy them.  Thank you for all the support you have given to me and ARK  Free for the next Read more [...]