While Finding Yourself, Stay True to Yourself!

  My entire dating life till the summer of 2012 consisted of a total of eight males since I was 15 years old and now I am over 50. I had been hurt so badly by my last relationship I decided to put on my tough coat and not let any man hurt me again. My plan was, never allow anyone to get close enough to know my true feeling.  I learned the hard way while finding yourself, stay true to yourself! Along my journey, I met someone I thought was very nice. Unfortunately, he didn't get enough time Read more [...]

Things Do Go Wrong in Life If You Need Help it’s Just a Phone Call Away

    Things may be going wrong in your life now. I know life will get better. Life isn't always FUN; it isn't always FAIR. You have to take one day at a time. You must learn from your mistakes in order to have the knowledge and ability to find true happiness. Wouldn’t it be nice if life came with an owners manual? Not only would we know what could happen to us; we would also know how to fix it. All we can do is face it head on, and handle everything to the best of our ability, Don't Read more [...]

Things You Should Not Do After Divorce

Please scroll down and get the information for your free 30 coaching session compliments of DASNM and Joanie!      Getting a divorce is one thing, and surviving it is another, making things more difficult. When a marriage ends, a series of stressful events are faced by spouses and their children. In most cases, either party is often at the disadvantage and suffers much from this ordeal, as he or she is often left surviving with children. Such nerve-racking changes as new living arrangements, Read more [...]

Psychopathy Checklist of H. Cleckley and R. Hare

    The below traits are based on the psychopathy checklists of H. Cleckley and R. Hare. Related Qualities of the sociopath: Contemptuous of those who seek to understand them... Does not perceive that anything is wrong with them Authoritarian Secretive Paranoid Only rarely in difficulty with the law, but seeks out situations where their tyrannical behavior will be tolerated, condoned, or admired Conventional appearance Goal of enslavement of their victim(s) Exercises despotic Read more [...]

“Ripe for the Picking?”

      With the loss of any long-term relationship, there will be things you begin to miss. Things like, a nice strong or loving hug from someone of the opposite sex, a smile when they see you walking up, and the list goes on and on.  Fortunately right after my divorce, a good friend came up and said “guard yourself against becoming ripe for the picking.” I had no idea what he meant, so he explained there are people out there that will see that you are vulnerable and try to Read more [...]

The 9 Characteristics of Narcissism

      1. An exaggerated or grandiose sense of self importance that isn’t supported by reality. He/she believes that his/her priorities, interests, opinions and beliefs are better than or more important than others and as a result, they feel entitled to dominate and control those around them. He/she can even seem quite modest in public about these views, but usually at home these are evident. 2. A preoccupation with fantasies of extraordinary success, power, beauty or love. He/she Read more [...]

Mistakes to Avoid After the Breakup

  There are several things that people do after a breakup that end up worsening an already complicated issue. Listed below are mistakes to avoid after the breakup.   They are completely ineffective and only make matters worse for you! Please avoid them at all cost!   1. Blaming Yourself - It really doesn’t matter if you did or did not initiate the divorce. Both of you had a part in some way, and history cannot be changed. The main thing you can change is your future. If you Read more [...]