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When people find themselves single again, it can be a scary experience. Often in the grips of change and loneliness, we find ourselves wondering about the “whens”, “wheres” and “hows” of finding someone new. However, jumping right back into another relationship is not always beneficial to everyone involved, most importantly-yourself.
Before getting involved in another relationship right away, we need to do what is best for us, which is to heal completely. It is necessary to be free from any negative energy, drama or baggage associated with our past relationships. We need to heal our heart, mind and soul first. When you still have “unresolved business” (or just aren’t 100% ready) and jump into something new, it can set the relationship up for failure. This is not the way to start a healthy, new beginning and it is not fair to the other person or yourself. When not completely healed or ready, you are also more emotionally vulnerable, which makes it very easy to get hurt. If a new relationship doesn’t end up working, the stress of dealing with that hurt, plus all the other issues of the previous relationship can be devastating and overwhelming.
Let yourself heal completely first, before getting involved in a new relationship. If this means taking a year or two off, so be it. Take this time to focus on yourself, work on any personal issues and get closure on your previous relationship. Get a fresh perspective and learn how things in your past could have been done differently and use that experience to figure out what you do or don’t want in your next significant other.
Learn to be happy with YOU, first. Through self-reflection, finding yourself and healing, you will find yourself in a much better position for a happy, new beginning. Once you are happy with yourself, a healthy relationship will just be an extra bonus to your life. When healed, strong and ready, you will be in the right place at the right time and everything will fall together the way it should.
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Originally posted 2013-01-20 03:51:49. Republished by Blog Post Promoter