Communication With Ease (even with your ex)!

  Have you ever asked yourself these questions concerning your ex, children, co-workers or even your boss? - Why did you do that? - What were you thinking? Trying to understand another person's behavior can be very stressful and frustrating.  The first step to help you deal with your frustration is to remember that everyone is unique. We all see the world from a different perspective. With that being said, would it be fair to say that if I understand you and you understand me, chances are Read more [...]

Divorce Support Boot Camp – How to Deal with the Holidays!

  Divorce Support... How to Deal with the Holidays! Welcome!         After a divorce, the holiday season can be stressful, emotional and lonely. If you are experiencing any of these feelings, I can appreciate what you are going through! Hello, it's Joanie Winberg, a Certified Human Behavior Consultant, Divorce Mentor, corporate trainer and CEO of the National Association of Divorce for Women and Children. So how to you deal with the holidays and plan for the Read more [...]

Complimentary 30 minute Coaching Session

  DASNM has a complimentary 30 minute coaching session just for you: Do you ever feel like you need someone to talk to during this time in your life? Divorce Support is just a phone call away from our very own Joanie! Are any of the following concerns keeping you awake at night? - Will I always feel this lonely?-  I feel stuck. I need help setting goals for my new life.- How do I deal with stress and the feeling of being overwhelmed as a single parent on a daily basis? - Dating again? Read more [...]

The No Contact Rule!

      The No Contact Rule!   1. No calls, no texts, no emails, no smoke signals, no carrier pigeons. Make a list of every nasty hurtful thing they said and did to you and keep a copy near every communication device you own. 2. No “accidental” meetings (if you can help it). Change your routine. Go to the gym at a different time or on different days. Find an alternate sports pub. Go to a different grocery store. Yes, it’s unfair that you have to change your lifestyle Read more [...]

Divorce Source Radio Episode “NLP Combined with Divorce Coaching Helps Get Over Divorce Faster”

    Divorce Source Radio Episode   “NLP Combined with Divorce Coaching Helps Get Over Divorce Faster” Originally aired July 23, 2012       Podcast: Play in new window | Download     This episode of Divorce Source Radio with Steve Peck features Liz Becker, a Master Neuro-Linguistic Programming Practitioner (NLP) and a Divorce/Life Coach. Liz combines her divorce Coaching and NLP skills in an attempt to peacefully assist people through the unpleasant Read more [...]

Dating Has Changed!

  I took some time off before attempting any kind of new, potentially physical relationship. Everyone should take the time to reflect and cope with the loss of a relationship regardless of which one ended it. Some of you may have only been married a few years, and then there are others like me. On my 26th wedding anniversary, my divorce was final.   It had been 30 years since I had been a member of the dating world. So much has changed, and I began to wonder if I was prepared to start Read more [...]

Favoritism/Special Treatment

  Several moms/dads are upset because they are dealing with this unfortunate situation. This is a difficult obstacle to tackle because there may be numerous reasons why mom/dad may be showing favoritism. Guilt and feelings of loss can cause a parent to engage in favoritism without being aware of it. They try to make the most of their little bit of time with their child/ren pleasant and memorable that they fail to realize they are creating an unbalanced situation with all of the children involved. Read more [...]

Are There Substances That May Block Us From God?

      In our desire to connect more deeply with God, we may be unaware that certain substances actually create a block to our experiences.  If you remove these substances the clarity of purpose, clarity of connection , clarity of communication is so much more readily available.     Hi I am David Essel, M.S. the Author 7 books and counting, National Radio and Television Host, Master Life and Business Coach, Adjunct Professor, All Faiths Minister, Addiction Recovery Read more [...]

Hopeless at Keeping Appointments Organized

  If you are hopeless at keeping appointments organized and remembering what happened when, be honest and admit it to yourself, or you’re going to seriously struggle to keep on top of your ensuing or post-divorce details. Buy an inexpensive A5 diary - regardless of whatever time of year it is - and make summary notes of any telephone calls you have with your legal team, of key discussion points you have during communication with your ex, of nights your children stay with you/them, of Read more [...]

To Help Through the Holidays DASNM is Proud to Present Three Awesome New Resources!

Thank you so much for being a member of Divorced and Scared NO More.  On the 14th of November we celebrated our first year on the internet.  Do you like the website and would you like to help DASNM keep putting out this useful information?  If so please click on "Want to Help" on the top left side of the page. Divorce and its after math is a difficult topic to deal with as any of you that have walked this path know all too well.    Tears and laughter used wisely can be wonderful healing Read more [...]