Divorce Source Radio Episode “Is Your Ex a Narcissist or Just an Asshole?”

Divorce Source Radio Episode   “Is Your Ex a Narcissist or Just an Asshole?” Originally aired April 26, 2012 Podcast: Play in new window | Download             In the revised DMS-Five edition, narcissism will no longer be considered a mental disorder as it has been in the past.  With this removal this question comes to mind, “If my ex isn’t a certifiable narcissist, is he/she just an asshole?”     Dr. Banschick breaks down the facts and explain narcissism as we once knew Read more [...]

Divorce Source Radio Episode Alone for the Holidays

          Podcast: Play in new window | Download This show starts the ball rolling with irritation. Steve was trying to help Joanie go on to Google’s Hangout for our original video podcast. Joanie couldn’t seem to work things out on her end bringing back the irritation Steve used to have with his no-tech ex. After an hour, they trash the idea and go back to using Skype. Have you ever fought with a partner over computer dilemmas? Then you’ll relate to this episode. Tis the season to get ready for the holidays, and for some, the holiday season can Read more [...]

Divorce Source Radio Episode “Are You a Good Kisser?”

  Originally aired July 8, 2012     Podcast: Play in new window | Download The crazy trio is back- Lesley, Joanie and Steve. Today we ask, Are YOU a Good Kisser? We are thrilled you have joined us to take some time to let go, laugh, have fun, lighten up or may be just the right thing you need to hear at this time in your life. Check out some of the fun stuff we talked about today (warning- this is only the tip of the iceberg): Are you a good kisser? Steve salavates over this Read more [...]

I AM SOOOOOOOOO SORRY!

      Do any of these statements sound familiar? You’re such a loser You never get anything right You’re so stupid No one will ever love you You always mess up You’re a failure You’ll never be happy You’re no good You’re worthless…fat...old…ugly…fill in the blank….. Do you ever notice saying any of these things to yourself, or about yourself? Would you ever say any of these mean things to a friend? And, as a good friend, would you make especially sure to say Read more [...]

Lost & Found

All these opposites:  Lost  Found Thick  Thin All  Nothing Light Dark Happy Sad This list is endless…so, feel free to add your own…. Is there some particular reason to see everything as either or?  Why go from one extreme to the other?  Can lost really mean misplaced…or discarded…or used up?  Is there anything between all and nothing? The point here is to notice when we get stuck interpreting what we see…what we experience…what we feel , as all this or all that…black or white… We Read more [...]

Divorce Source Radio Episode – Dating Politics and More

        Podcast: Play in new window | Download Joanie shares her latest dating experience and Lesley and Steve break down why “Spring” if Joanie’s favorite time of the year. Steve shares what it was like to ask out a someone who is the mother of a son. (More to come on this breaking story next week.) The trio also discusses more about relationships as well as the Beyonce’s debacle at the Presidential Inauguration and touch on the Mardi Gradi Gras, Read more [...]

Inspirational Quotes #47

Inspirational Quotes "Life is a coin. You can spend it any way you choose, but you can only spend it once." – Give Time a chance To Heal You “We are the people you know; we have lived through and survived the death of a home. (aka divorce)” – Divorced and Scared No More “Life is too awesome to waste your time thinking about someone who doesn’t treat you right!” – Precious Family Forever “Smiling is the best way to face every problem, to crush every fear, to hide every pain.” Read more [...]

The Anatomy of An Affair – Part 3

        Podcast: Play in new window | Download In this, the 3rd of our series, The Anatomy of an Affair, we focus on two phases of recovery. David Feder believes firmly that moving “from discovery to recovery” means much more than merely moving on and allowing time to pass. David says, “if you do that you are leaving the quality of your recovery and your life up to the Gods”. He asks, are you sure that is what you want to do? In this segment, we begin by having Read more [...]

FEELING STUCK?

    Feeling Stuck? Fresh out of ideas…can’t move forward…zero energy…all is blah… We feel stuck in the muck…can’t move…ugh! We may feel stuck…but the world…the universe…is in constant motion…and, even if we can’t feel it…we’re along for the ride and in motion too… This moment is not exactly like the moment before…the earth has rotated…ever so slightly…we’ve breathed a new breath…a new exchange of oxygen and carbon dioxide…a breeze ruffles the Read more [...]

Divorce Source Radio Episode “Emotional & Sexual Building Blocks”

      Originally aired June 27, 2012       Podcast: Play in new window | Download Sex Therapist, Juliana Neiman continues her “Building Blocks” series. Learning to reclaim passion and self esteem builds up emotional growth. Today we deal with Guilt Rejection, Grief and Anger and we consider whom it may be worse for, the leavor or the leavee? Juliana helps us know what everyone may be feeling.   For more on Juliana Neiman, visit: www.JulianaNeiman.com         We Read more [...]