Lost & Found

All these opposites:  Lost  Found Thick  Thin All  Nothing Light Dark Happy Sad This list is endless…so, feel free to add your own…. Is there some particular reason to see everything as either or?  Why go from one extreme to the other?  Can lost really mean misplaced…or discarded…or used up?  Is there anything between all and nothing? The point here is to notice when we get stuck interpreting what we see…what we experience…what we feel , as all this or all that…black or white… We Read more [...]

Divorce Source Radio Episode – Dating Politics and More

        Podcast: Play in new window | Download Joanie shares her latest dating experience and Lesley and Steve break down why “Spring” if Joanie’s favorite time of the year. Steve shares what it was like to ask out a someone who is the mother of a son. (More to come on this breaking story next week.) The trio also discusses more about relationships as well as the Beyonce’s debacle at the Presidential Inauguration and touch on the Mardi Gradi Gras, Read more [...]

Inspirational Quotes #47

Inspirational Quotes "Life is a coin. You can spend it any way you choose, but you can only spend it once." – Give Time a chance To Heal You “We are the people you know; we have lived through and survived the death of a home. (aka divorce)” – Divorced and Scared No More “Life is too awesome to waste your time thinking about someone who doesn’t treat you right!” – Precious Family Forever “Smiling is the best way to face every problem, to crush every fear, to hide every pain.” Read more [...]

The Anatomy of An Affair – Part 3

        Podcast: Play in new window | Download In this, the 3rd of our series, The Anatomy of an Affair, we focus on two phases of recovery. David Feder believes firmly that moving “from discovery to recovery” means much more than merely moving on and allowing time to pass. David says, “if you do that you are leaving the quality of your recovery and your life up to the Gods”. He asks, are you sure that is what you want to do? In this segment, we begin by having Read more [...]

FEELING STUCK?

    Feeling Stuck? Fresh out of ideas…can’t move forward…zero energy…all is blah… We feel stuck in the muck…can’t move…ugh! We may feel stuck…but the world…the universe…is in constant motion…and, even if we can’t feel it…we’re along for the ride and in motion too… This moment is not exactly like the moment before…the earth has rotated…ever so slightly…we’ve breathed a new breath…a new exchange of oxygen and carbon dioxide…a breeze ruffles the Read more [...]

Divorce Source Radio Episode “Emotional & Sexual Building Blocks”

      Originally aired June 27, 2012       Podcast: Play in new window | Download Sex Therapist, Juliana Neiman continues her “Building Blocks” series. Learning to reclaim passion and self esteem builds up emotional growth. Today we deal with Guilt Rejection, Grief and Anger and we consider whom it may be worse for, the leavor or the leavee? Juliana helps us know what everyone may be feeling.   For more on Juliana Neiman, visit: www.JulianaNeiman.com         We Read more [...]

Divorced and Scared NO More Author Updates

    *************************************** Thank you so much for your support of DASNM.  On November 14 we will have been on the internet for 1 year.  Time has flown by and this one woman blog has turned into a website with over 20 contributors.   All the contributors and I would like you to know we appreciate your feedback, comments and emails so very much.  If you see any way we can improve the website or anything you would like to share with others PLEASE don’t hesitate to let Read more [...]

Lighter Side Quotes #19

Lighter Side Quotes “Have you ever noticed that being accused of something you didn’t do, makes you want to do it?” – Unknown “I was always told “If you can’t say anything nice, don’t say anything at all…” My ex sometimes wonders WHY I am so quite around him?????” – Divorced and Scared No More “The next time Satan reminds you of your past, remind him of his future!” – walkjc.org “When I’m sad I just sing, and then I realize my voice is worse than my problems.” Read more [...]

Divorce Source Radio Episode “Dealing with the Pain of Divorce”

      Divorce Source Radio Episode   “Dealing with the Pain of Divorce” Originally aired August 23, 2012   Podcast: Play in new window | Download         In this show of The Intelligent Divorce with Mark Banschick, M.D., we consider pain. Whether physical or through something like divorce, hurt is a power to be reckoned with. Dr. Banschick shares his own story of a recent back pain that left him incapable of dealing with things he used to take for granted, such as walking, Read more [...]

Divorce Source Radio Episode “Single Again! Conspiracy Theory”

  Divorce Source Radio Episode   “Single Again! Conspiracy Theory” Originally aired July 29, 2012     Podcast: Play in new window | Download On this episode of Single Again! Now What? Joanie, Lesley & Steve hash over the tragic events in Colorado and take a look at the conspiracy theories. They also discuss the 2012 Olympics, living in the present, is a pony tail sexy? Does age really matter? The Divorce Hotel, how our roles in life change, Are you over your ex? and Read more [...]