Patterns

  My separation happened about a year and a couple months ago. I can no longer remember the exact date that my wife told me she couldn't stay married to me any longer. It was a hell of a day with a long and argument filled build up. Followed by a long and argument filled time-frame while I was looking for a new place to live. Without going too much into it I can tell you that our situation was fairly typical in many ways. We weren’t satisfied, she started going out more and more. She Read more [...]

You Will Need to Rest up and Probably Sleep

        Adrenaline is the stuff that divorces are made of. It will fuel your body through a great many of your most stressful moments and you will get through the other side, but there will a price to pay. Once your fight or flight situation has passed and your heartbeat has returned to normal, your body is likely to say, ‘Excuse me, sorry to bother you but it’s time to pay up with your pound of flesh’. I say, ‘Pound of flesh’, actually, it’s your eyelids its after. You Read more [...]

A Mans Perspective on Patterns

  My separation happened about a year and a couple months ago. I can no longer remember the exact date that my wife told me she couldn't stay married to me any longer. It was a hell of a day with a long and argument filled build up. Followed by a long and argument filled time-frame while I was looking for a new place to live. Without going too much into it I can tell you that our situation was fairly typical in many ways. We weren’t satisfied, she started going out more and more. She met Read more [...]

Single Again and Again and….

  Do you have the short-term curse since your divorce? Your relationships inexplicably go away after a few months and all of a sudden and you're single again? Regardless of exactly how hard you try, you cannot get past just a short term relationships. Dating failure can be very distressing! If dating isn't really working out for you, reevaluate your dating habits. Have you ever considered maybe you, not the relationship is the problem? You don't intend to make the very same choices again Read more [...]

Divorce Coping Tip of the Day – Listen to Your Body and Rest

    Divorce and healing after a divorce can be mentally and physically exhausting. You may feel as though your body is wrapped in a cloak of tiredness; don’t fight it, Listen to Your Body and Rest! For some, shutting down and retreating somewhere to slumber safely is the body’s way of coping with what has been going on. Don’t counteract it with energy drinks and caffeine, because for every ounce of false energy you put in, your body will eventually re-address the balance and Read more [...]

BEWARE! Your Drink May Have a Date Rape Drug!

    When I am out with friends, I often ask “What would be a good topic for me to write about?” To my surprise one night I had three friends at the same time say “Date rape drugs!” They all told me that within the last six months, all of them had this happen to them. Years ago I also had the same thing happen to me. Both sexes are a risk I personally know of a few men that have been drugged. Here are some of the warning signs that you may have been the victim of a date rape drug. Read more [...]