Infidelity and Dealing with Reasonable, Emotional and Wise Mind States

The emotions felt by the hurt partner immediately after finding out about an affair are simply overwhelming There are emotional stages of processing an affair and they similar to those dealing with death of a loved one. You have lost something you cherished and even if the relationship is saved it will never be the same. The difference in death and infidelity is when a person died they did not choose to leave you but in the case of infidelity they did choose to leave you. Accepting you were second Read more [...]

42 Seconds of Happiness | Chapter Eighteen | What do they fear?

  42 Seconds of Happiness | Chapter Eighteen | What do they fear? Warning some episodes have strong language!       Published on Sep 4, 2012 WritersImprovStudio Are we afraid of happiness? 'With that kind of happiness comes great risk,' says Alis, and Marc, in a moment of perfect clarity, asserts that 'ultimately I think I'll be unhappy by my own choice'. Watch Marc's and Alis' confessions after Alis has told him that she is separating from Tomas. What do they, what Read more [...]

Be Prepared for your Initial Meetings

    Be prepared for your initial meetings with your solicitor / lawyer, you will be expected to provide them with a diverse array of information. It will help them and save you time and money if you prepare your responses efficiently in advance of any meetings. Your initial meeting should certainly include as much of the following as is possible. Clear and concise reasons why you want a divorce including information on any domestic abuse (emotional, mental, financial, sexual and physical), Read more [...]

42 Seconds of Happiness | Chapter Seventeen | Marc and Alis II

    Warning some episodes have strong language! Published on Jan 5, 2013 WritersImprovStudio Imagine you are in love. She is married, you are married. Both unhappily, which is why this is happening. Then one of you decides to leave the marriage. And it is not you. Alis tells Marc that she is getting a divorce. Watch what happens. And if that is not too much to imagine: you are in a car. Meeting the love of your life. Or that is what you thought. Two hours ago. 4 couples. 6 friends. Read more [...]

The Relationship was Already Done

  When he/she fell asleep did you look through their phone to see whom he/she had been texting/calling? Did you go through his/her wallet, purse, computer, lunchbox... looking for evidence? Look at yourself in the mirror, and ask yourself why were you in this relationship at that time? Because once you found yourself doing those things, the relationship was already DONE, it is over and already dead. You are just living with a ghost and nothing more. End of story!   Come visit our Facebook Read more [...]

“42 Seconds of Happiness” Film Fundraising Pitch

    Warning some episodes have strong language!     Published on Jan 5, 2013 WritersImprovStudio http://www.indiegogo.com/42SecondsOfH... Find out why you should support "42 Seconds of Happiness." For more information, click through to our IndieGoGo campaign. "42 Seconds of Happiness" is that moment when we are in the moment. In the past year, writer/creator Christina Kallas and the Writers Improv Studio team, have experimented in the frame of the transmedia project Read more [...]

42 Seconds of Happiness | Chapter Ten | Alis II

  42 Seconds of Happiness | Chapter Ten | Alis II  Warning some episodes have strong language!     Published on Nov 17, 2012  WritersImprovStudio   "I don't want to be sad. I don't want to cry. I don't want to feel like my life is over." - Alis. Sometimes a decision is made before it is made. Sometimes we know, but it takes time - and a shock - to make us listen to what we know. A month before The Dinner. The inevitable is written in every scene. Life is scripted, Read more [...]

Release Yourselves from the Blame and Guilt

        We go over it over and over again, finding all kinds of problems with ourselves.  “I wasn’t good enough,” “I did everything wrong and did not please them enough,”  “I should have loved them more,”  “The other person was better at loving them than me,” ..... but the fact remains that the relationship fell apart.  So we need to release ourselves from the blame and guilt.  Do this for yourself your ex did what they did for themselves.     Would Read more [...]

Additional Tips on Getting Over Your Ex

It can still be hard to bury all those memories and move on with your life even if you decided to end the relationship especially if they cheated on you. I have put together some Additional Tips on Getting Over Your Ex,  I have used to help me get past the loss of a relationship. Write it Down - When you have issues with your ex and you feel you must contact them now, DO NOT CALL or TEXT MESSAGE them at that moment. Instead, get a pen and paper and write it down (or type it on your computer) Read more [...]