Inspirational Quotes #18

"Happiness comes when we stop complaining about the troubles we have, and say thanks to God for the troubles we don’t have…" -  Angela Rose "I have peace today not because there are no storms in the world, but because the LORD is my peace in the midst of the storm." Psalm 107:29-30 "It’s easy to take off your clothes and have sex; people do it all the time, but opening up your soul to someone, letting them into your spirit, thoughts, fears, future, hopes, and dreams…. THAT”S being naked!" Read more [...]

A Success Story: – Infidelity – I Didn’t Let His Affair Destroy Me

“There are all kinds of ways for a relationship to be tested, even broken, some, irrevocably; it’s the endings we’re unprepared for.” ― Katherine Owen, Not To Us About two years ago, I thought my life was falling apart. After the death of one of my parents, I found out my husband was having an affair and he walked out on my son and me at the weakest moment in my life. I sat in my house with my son who was a toddler, and didn’t understand what I did to deserve to lose my father and the Read more [...]

Try this Today: Enjoy the Same Moon

  By Gretchen Schiller  Try this Today Series. Everyday application for healthy co-parenting. In earlier posts, I mentioned how I’m working hard toward making a daily choice to try to strengthen the bond between Ana Lu and her dad instead of allowing the toxic poison from the divorce seep into her innocent life. So I’m going to try this today. Maybe you can too. *This also works well for married couples; a spouse on a business trip…a spouse working late…grandparents who live Read more [...]

Two Wild Dogs Fighting and Title of My Books…

      People often ask me where the titles of the three "Dogs" books comes from, and I tell them that a few weeks after I was served with papers by the sheriff, a close friend of mine, someone who had gone through his own train-wreck of a divorce, handed me this story, and It became a guiding light for me, even after the divorce times were behind me. "The old Indian chief was teaching wisdom to his young grandson as they sat together on the mesa beneath the starry night sky. He explained Read more [...]

Inspirational Quotes #35

Inspirational Quotes “What we are today comes from our thoughts of yesterday, and our present thoughts build our life of tomorrow: Our life is the creation of our mind.” ~ Buddha “Begin doing what you want to do now. We are not living in eternity. We have only this moment, sparkling like a star in our hand-and melting like a snowflake...” - Marie Beyon Ray “The basic thing is that everyone wants happiness, no one wants suffering. And happiness mainly comes from our own attitude, rather Read more [...]

“ The Subtotal Of All I Am ”

    Multiply And divide me Gracefully subtract what’s still inside me Not before you add it up Even though you’ve had enough The subtotal of all I am Is equal to what you’ve become So equate this to true love and Multiply the sum           Follow me on Facebook Tony Haynes Check out  these and some of my other books on Amazon.com SpiritChili A Few Poems From Words I Found In Divorced Spiritchilism By Definition This Has Everything To Do Read more [...]

Projection: Your Partner is Not a Mirror

    Projection in relationships is one of the most common reasons of abusive relationships. This is a defense mechanism of most people that they are not aware of. Projection is what other people do in order to manage and cope with their feelings. Psychological projection is about projecting your undesirable feelings to someone else instead of dealing with it yourself. When this is done in a relationship, it becomes an abusive one. When Projection becomes Abusive This abusive behavior Read more [...]

“Hold Me Up”

                   “Hold Me Up”   The grief is Heavy, but in the heaviness Every heart can be uplifted   Hope’s motif is then Embedded in A byproduct Love re-gifted I need you to hold me up Never let me down when I’m deep into it Give me the strength to go through it   Properly, I have to put this grief behind me Remove it from me finally Over time & under the watchful eye Clouded by Emotions that Read more [...]

Read Quietly “The Value” then Share with Someone

To realize The value of a sister/brother Ask   someone Who doesn't have one. To realize The value of ten   years: Ask a newly Divorced couple. To realize The value of   four years: Ask a graduate. To realize The value of one   year: Ask a student who Has failed a final exam. To   realize The value of nine months: Ask a mother who gave birth to a   stillborn. To realize The value of one month: Ask a mother Who   has given birth to A premature baby. To realize The value of one   Read more [...]

“I Wish You A Lifetime Of Love”

        Follow me on Facebook Tony Haynes Check out  these and some of my other books on Amazon.com SpiritChili A Few Poems From Words I Found In Divorced Spiritchilism By Definition This Has Everything To Do With My Life For more information check out  www.tonyhaynes.webs.com,  Wikipedia – Tony Haynes  and  All Media Artists.com - Tony Haynes  (the bottom of this page has links to 86 of my songs on YouTube… hope you enjoy!) — Tony   Amazon.com Read more [...]