Reinvention is an Interesting Concept

    Reinvention is an interesting concept and not an event that needs to sit on-hold now is the time for you to grow. You don’t have to take Madonna’s hard line on things and make yourself over into a completely new being every couple of years, but a bit of dusting down and shaking around can be a very positive phase to embrace. New colors, new fabrics, new wardrobe, new music, even new friends can blow a breath of fresh air into your mind, body and your attitude to life and towards Read more [...]

Alterations to Eating Regimes are Best Done When You Are Settled

  Cut yourself a large slice of calorific slack while you coast through your divorce and the aftermath.   This isn’t the best time to embark upon a diet of any sort, however much you feel you need to slice a few pounds off your mid or any other regions.   Radical alterations to eating regimes are best done when you are in a settled, confident and committed frame of mind. You need dedication to stick to any new eating plan and if you falter, which you are likely to do (we Read more [...]

It’s Easy to Feel Emotionally Scarred

        It’s incredibly easy to feel emotionally scarred by the actions of an unpleasant ex but don’t be frightened off of other members of their gender for life. Take things as slowly as you need to once you’ve come to terms with your divorce and remember that being in a relationship isn’t a necessity, but it can be a wonderful place. Learning to trust again, allowing yourself to love again and letting down the barriers enough to let a new partner into your life Read more [...]

Grateful for Freedom and I’m Proud to be an American

              socialmediamo Published on Aug 14, 2012 America, despite the differences many of us have, is still the greatest country on earth. Here are a few quotes from great Americans, enjoy and share. You can follow me on http://twitter.com/socialmediamo or http://facebook.com/socialmediamo     Would you like to support DASNM?  If so, it is easy, just use this link  Amazon Purchases in support of DASNM.com  A small percentage of the Read more [...]

Music Has an Overwhelming Ability to Affect our Emotions

  Music has an overwhelming ability to affect our emotions and alter our state of mind, both adversely and positively. At times when the dreaded divorce paperwork is bearing down upon you, or you have an inordinate amount of form filling in to do, it can help enormously if you have something playing in the background that soothes you while you do so. You probably know what genre of music is likely to work best for you and if you are unable to invest in a new collection, explore the music Read more [...]

The Law Society Can Help

  Finding a good solicitor to represent you in your divorce, is a next to impossible task if you have no prior experience to draw upon. Various Internet directories will present you with unfathomable lists of firms who may simply have paid the most amount of money to sit on the top of the respective list; top doesn’t qualify well. Personal recommendation is unquestionably the best way to find somebody, but it doesn’t tend to be the sort of thing one talks much about. In the first instance, Read more [...]

Suffering?

  So if you are suffering in a manner that pleases God, keep on doing what is right, and trust your lives to the God who created you, for he will never fail you. (NLT) ( 1 Peter 4:19 ) No one likes to suffer but yet we all do at some point in our lives. The question is whether we're suffering with a Godly purpose or suffering from our bad decisions. If you've made a decision such as to purchase unnecessary stuff and find yourself suffering financially, it's probably time to take action and Read more [...]

Divorce Coping Tip of the Day – Did the Solicitors Cost More Than Money

The desire to fight back after an unjust divorce can be overbearing and exhausting.   When you were dealing with the wording in a petition that had been served to you, maybe you or your spouse contested it and went back with a counter petition.  Was it really worth it?  Did some of those actions and reactions cause part of the pain you feel today?  The only folks that profited were the respective solicitors.   Consider the benefits of simply rolling with it, and letting it go.  Read more [...]

Be Prepared for your Initial Meetings

    Be prepared for your initial meetings with your solicitor / lawyer, you will be expected to provide them with a diverse array of information. It will help them and save you time and money if you prepare your responses efficiently in advance of any meetings. Your initial meeting should certainly include as much of the following as is possible. Clear and concise reasons why you want a divorce including information on any domestic abuse (emotional, mental, financial, sexual and physical), Read more [...]

Timetabling a Divorce is Tricky

    Chartered psychologist Felix Economakis famously said “The end of a relationship has a number of stages, similar to those of grief, namely denial, anger, bargaining, depression then acceptance.”  Timetabling a divorce is tricky why do so many try to do it? I might contend the order of a couple of them, but essentially I’d say he was right on the money. I would also add how lovely it would be if you could add ‘relief’ to the end of the list; oh, if only life were that Read more [...]