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Divorce Coping Tip of the Day – Letting Go

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Letting go is one of the biggest challenges that you have to face in life. It’s risky and aggravating sometimes because really, most people don’t like the change right? But change is good. It could be about letting go of  that favorite toy, clothing, game, that person you love (for the best or the worse), your old house, your routines/habits, a loved one’s death, etc.

 

Everyone goes through…
the feeling of detachment; some people seem do not understand others struggle of letting go. That’s okay, because you don’t know what they’re feeling. I’ve known people who went through a problem where the best solution was to let go. It’s easy to say…”Oh come on, move on. Let it/him/her go.”

 

But allowing yourself to jump to their perspective, in their shoes, in their eyes, in their mind, you realize it’s a hard thing to do. It might even be one of the hardest things you ever do. You don’t want to lose that person or thing, even though it’s affecting you greatly in a negative way. You end up with nothing, BUT it may just be time for a change.

 

Letting go brings back one thing that controls almost ALL of us, FEAR. Everyone is scared of the results of letting go of someone you love or even that baby blanket. We will question ourselves: Was it the right thing to do? Was it the wrong thing to do? Will I regret it? A little at first but then again… just maybe, all of the uncertainty is really what is so difficult.

 

I’m experiencing this right now. But letting go allows you to GROW. “Let go and grow”. Learn from it whether it was right or wrong. It’s like spending money to make money = Sacrifice to gain = Letting go to grow. Letting go is a simple concept yet so complex, all in all it just depends on the human being experiencing it…..

 

 

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Originally posted 2012-12-16 01:37:23. Republished by Blog Post Promoter

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